Thanks guys, you're all right (and just the 2x4's I needed).

I'm going to continue down my path of GAL and detach as much as I can.... but I also think I'm at a point where I need to draft a separation agreement and protect myself.

She's a loose cannon right now. I don't even know how I'm going to react when she returns from her week-long vacation with OM. I assume staying dark is the only real option here?

I want nothing to do with her while she's so invested in him.

-Pluto

H: 29 W: 27
No Kids

Together: 12/04 (9 years)
Living: 02/09 (5 years)
Married: 06/13 (11 months)
ILYBNILWY: 01/14
Separate Bedrooms: 01/14
Discovered Affair: 02/14 (On-going)
W Moved Out: 06/14