I don't think I've been clear with boundaries so far. W dropped off S after school again today and had the impression that as next school year started up she would continue to get him from school each day and work out getting him to me after either spending time with him or just dropping him off right away. We have discussed daycare multiple times for next year and established that he would be living with me. I may not have communicated clearly but I don't know how she didn't get this one. I'm not sure if I'm being unfair but I currently have had to live most of my weekdays around her schedule. She is at my place every weekday when I come home and there is always an amount of awkwardness. I can't stop her from pursuing D but I don't want her over everyday then. I need my personal space without being reminded every day about her and her feelings. Is that so wrong?

She seemed so upset by it...not mad but upset, which I can understand as our plans are obviously different.

M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10