Thanks Drew. I agree but if I didn't he'd never get things done. 1) you cannot say that b/c how could you know, if he never really got the chance? If you "always" reminded him, then I assume he "always" showed up. If not, why?
2) as Drew points out, it sure sounds like nagging to most men and to ME, if it were my h doing it, it would also feel like nagging. As it is, my h reminds me to take the trash out when he's away, which drives me insane. I KNOW when the trash needs taking out and if I miss it, so what?
3) EVENTUALLY he'll make the appointments, ALL the ones...all the ones he wants to make, that is. And he will have to own missing an event b/c it'll be known you no longer are his "secretary"...and you will allow him to be the adult male he ought to be and may want to be.
believe me I hated it too.
I'm calling you on this^^. I don't believe you hated it...see note below & think about it..
He began to rely on you would use me as a secretary I guess. He never once complained about it and always thanked me for reminding him.
the comment "never complained...always thanked me" was your pay off. So, now it will be gone.
IS that why this is hard for you?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
