I know, and its never as simple as just making the decision. You have to remind yourself, keep yourself in check, and dedicate to keeping things about you every day. I do it too. But thats part of why we post. I've started setting a reminder on my phone that goes off twice a day with a message to remind me what I need to focus on.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10