I have no idea about the stats Momo. But I'm so sorry you find yourself here going through this. Hopefully counseling will help and your h will open up to it. My didn't. He used it with no intention of trying to reconcile but only to finish things off. My h told the counselor he had no intention of changing anything about himself and that I was the whole problem. My h also never told me there were any issues in our marriage prior to the bd. I am struggling also to try and put h out of my mind and move on. He hasn't filed for divorce yet although I have a feeling that will be coming soon and I won't fight him on it. It's not what I want but I also don't want to be in a loveless marriage. Now I just have to wrap my mind around the end of my marriage so I can move forward. Not being given a chance to try and resolve issues and hopefully look forward to a better and happier marriage is the biggest punch in the gut.
