Yeah I guess I got lucky? I questioned MLC vs WAS and after reading loads and loads of materials... discovered it didn't really matter either way but he was doing so many script MLC things. It was uncontested, we have no children, all it took was him paying the L 900 bucks and me signing it. 60 day waiting period in my state and it was done. I had taken the little MLC characteristics "quiz" and he was 72% of the things listed so I'm fairly certain he is. Then there was the anger, the seemingly overnight change from ILY to I want a d NOW. the drinking, the EA, he cashed out his 401k to furnish his new apt, blamed me for everything. faked an entire Christmas, says he wasn't happy for 6 months... then he said it was a year or more...yet the entire time he never let on. It has been a whirlwind but it feels like an eternity. I hope your D doesn't bring you down too much, you really seem to making very good progress in your life.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
