JBNATI: I used to run Marathon's and now I feel like this M is a sprint. Anyway, you wrote, "...Sad to say, often times my S will visit and she will sleep into the afternoon. Her house is cluttered. She doesn't get out and do too much. She spends a lot of time on dating sites according to my S. It's sad, it's almost like she's looking for someone else to fix her rather than taking on the responsibility herself. frown"
I caught this and think you might be onto her and that she will be like others, wake up and know she went on her journey and found herself at the end. That's what I hope happens to your ?xW. She is trying to find happiness and seems depressed by the way you're describing her situation. You never know what will happen next. That is for sure.