I think some people simply cannot comprehend that there are really only two ways of dealing with things. You can either live or not. I don't mean to sound melodramatic but those are the only 2 options.
Perhaps she thinks you should wither in the corner or cry non stop. We all need to feel our emotions (I keep reminding myself that :), however life/time continues on whether you choose to be an active participant or not.
Sounds like you are doing great. Don't let her words upset you. Keep up the good stuff!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
