"""H said to me the other day. Forget about me, move on and leave me alone."""
IGNORE HIM. Not in a bad way or a mean way just keep the focus on yourself.
Regarding the schedule stuff. My xH is on the school email so he gets all the info I get. He misses almost everything. He has been to 1 school event all year but he is on the same email chain I am.
On the phone the other night D5 asked why he missed her talent show. It was a relief that it didnt feel like something that involved me.
Every other month or so I send him an email with dates like dance recitals that he may not be aware of and thats it.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13