Venting: I am still close with my exMIL (from my 1st M- I'm not close AT ALL with current MIL...no drama there, they're just very closed off and private people).

Anyway, she called yesterday to ask about D12 and asked about H. (She was one of only 4 people I told in the beginning. I've only added a couple more to that number since, btw).

She asked how I was doing, I said I'm fine (which I am). Then she says, "well, correct me if I'm wrong but I think you're enjoying not having a H)." WTH?!?!?!??

I said -"actually, I'd much rather him be here, but I can't control that and life has to go on."

I don't know why that's bothering me so much, but I can't stop thinking about it! Who says that?

Last edited by artsy; 05/21/14 01:27 PM.
Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5