hope456 - accepting my new reality

[artsy]

I'd like to chime in about the rings: H took his off well over 1.5 years ago, and like many other WASs, lied about why. I took mine off when he left. Why? Because I was angry, and spiteful. He mentioned he noticed it, so I kept them off. It bothers me every day, and it will be six months in a couple weeks.

I have been challenged to think about my motivations, not just with the rings, but with all my actions- good and bad. I actually think I should put the wedding band back on (which will require me to squelch my pride, but that's a whole different issue I have LOL!). I agree wholeheartedly what you all said about the engagement ring.

So, whatever you decide about the rings- think about your motivations behind it. Do it for YOU, and it will be the right thing.