Ggrass is right though, continue to do the things you have been and maybe at some point a moment of clarity will come to both of you that will lead you in the direction that is best for you both.
Whatever that may be, I hope it is what is best for you and what you want and need.
I told my WAW that D is not a solution for me but understood why she is doing what she thinks is best for her.
Not helping W with moving forward on D but not planning on putting any roadblocks either unless I am advised by my L to do this for MY best interests.
This is where it might get a little contentious.
Hang in there!!
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
