IoWas wondering if someone could give me advise on co-parenting? this is a little tricky for me because I tend to be motherly to my H. I want to know about keeping him in the loop of kids activities. This week was the first time I gave him an agenda because lots going on. I didn't give times just days. I guess what I wanna know is should I now update him on time or let him figure it out for himself. Or He ca call me and ask if you want? I just want to know how much I should be updating him on the kids. Or maybe not at all? I want stop doing things, suggesting, and or reminding him thing. This is very hard for me and I get angry with myself when I do it because I want desperately to stop. You need to know do it for himself and take the responsible for himself. I just feel like doing it a lot because of the kids. I guess I need to just let him figure the kids at himself? And not make it my problem? Am I wrong?
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
