based on how much you talk about her and "her" interactions and all the energy that you put into what MAY or MAY NOT be happening, yes you do need to GAL big time.
You have to break out of your old patterns b/c I fear that even if she did want back in, you'd revert. Not right away, but soon...see Crimson's recent post if that is confusing b/c He claims his changes would not be real if he had recon too soon after the divorce. And maybe they tried to reconcile too soon...
My gut says your changes are more tactical than real, meaning, you are intending them - but they are really just to get her back. Not true changes coming from a desire within, to do so.
Hope that makes sense.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
