Thanks JennD! I hope you are doing well. Yes as you and Thornton suggested, I will probably try meetup.com. I am feeling better since deciding what to do with my D 17. She will be going to a Challenge Academy or to Japan with her dad. Either way, I have let her know that is her only 2 choices and I have also told my mom. I have always hid things from my mom out of fear of disapproval but I am no longer willing to do that. Now I have found the strength to do what I need to do for my kids without caring what my mom or sisters think. This has caused fall out with them but I feel better.
Me 34 M 2.5 (Both 2nd M) My kids-D 17,S 16,S 12 BD 2/14 D final 7/2014