Hi FY. I agree about not discussing custody issues. I didn't want to at all but the day after she went to see the L with her dad, she insisted we talk about it. That's the whole reason for losing my cool. Less than 2 weeks before, she was fine with the way things were. I shouldn't have let her drag me into that talk. It was almost midnight and I had been up since 6:00 am and had my D's grad, going out with her entire class and most of the parents after grad for late lunch and then to a party from 7:00 to just before she wanted to talk. I was so tired! Bad time to talk about custody.
I think she wanted to because she was hoping I would let her dad take our D away with him when he left a couple days later. That didn't work out well.
I really don't think there is an affair just yet. Can't be sure but don't believe so. There are times I start to think she is taking advantage of me and I guess those are the times I get most angry. I even think there has been times that she gets bugged because even she knows she is asking for a lot and she wants to be independent so resents having to ask for my help. Need to be careful there. Thanks FY.
