I totally believe that.

My W told me a few weeks ago that she hasn't been treating me any different pre-BD vs post-BD... I pointed out a few very specific examples of how that was obviously not the case, but realized it was a losing battle and shut up.


-Pluto

H: 29 W: 27
No Kids

Together: 12/04 (9 years)
Living: 02/09 (5 years)
Married: 06/13 (11 months)
ILYBNILWY: 01/14
Separate Bedrooms: 01/14
Discovered Affair: 02/14 (On-going)
W Moved Out: 06/14