My W told me a few weeks ago that she hasn't been treating me any different pre-BD vs post-BD... I pointed out a few very specific examples of how that was obviously not the case, but realized it was a losing battle and shut up.
-Pluto
H: 29 W: 27 No Kids
Together: 12/04 (9 years) Living: 02/09 (5 years) Married: 06/13 (11 months) ILYBNILWY: 01/14 Separate Bedrooms: 01/14 Discovered Affair: 02/14 (On-going) W Moved Out: 06/14