I have no advice and I am in the same boat you are. I'm thinking about joining a Meetup.com group to find people that I might have some things in common with. Totally out of my comfort zone.
Question: Is your WAH a drinker? Have a problem with alcohol? If so, you may be codependent (you made your husband your world). Look into al-anon meetings, it's what I plan on doing as well.
