and for the record, I reconciled with my h, and yes this is a marriage support site. But I had DECADES of a very strong m, with a giving h and father, before his changes.
And you are not married, you have no kids, and he has given you the gift of revealing how HE REACTS to the slightest of stresses.
Life gives ALL of us some curve balls. You had many at a young age, so please bear in mind what curve balls your bf is NOT throwing at you, which is what would happen if he had stayed and been miserable, AND you had kids, AND you spent/invested even more time and money into this R --
and then when you really needed his support, he'd be gone... He's not the one for you, (surely not as he is now).
If that changes, then you'll KNOW.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
