Thanks for this. I'm going to ignore what she does with her facebook, and do my own thing.

On the pictures, I'm pretty torn. Right now I feel like they're an unhappy reminder of how quickly things went downhill (most of them are from our wedding - which was only 11 months ago now), and right now I think I might be better off taking them down.. Help me move on and detach.

Then again, I might just be thinking that way as I feel pretty defeated lately. I'm going to be contacting a lawyer this week to set up a meeting and potentially begin the process of getting a separation agreement in place. I'm being told by more than a few people that I should consult with a L regarding changing the locks after W moves out - and especially since she threatened me with lawyers and demanded my lawyer's contact info last week (to which I asked her what made her think I had one, and also whether or not she had one.. she refused to answer either but mentioned she feels like she needs one since I'm being so mean/rude to her lately).

The lawyer I will be meeting with specializes in collaborative family law, which I understand is recommended here. Any thoughts on things I should ask about or look into before I meet?

-Pluto

H: 29 W: 27
No Kids

Together: 12/04 (9 years)
Living: 02/09 (5 years)
Married: 06/13 (11 months)
ILYBNILWY: 01/14
Separate Bedrooms: 01/14
Discovered Affair: 02/14 (On-going)
W Moved Out: 06/14