Wife doesn't feel it... (Part 2)

[Corbean]

And honestly let me tell you the moral dilemma I'm having.

At what point does DB'ing take priority over my children? To me they are more important at this point.

Currently, they are sleeping in play pens, my daughter isn't receiving care or therapy, my wife is staying at her boyfriends house almost every night and leaving the kids at her mom's house. Unless she has moved them to his house which I don't know. They are spending 80% of their time around this guy per my wife's admission and she doesn't see an issue with it, her sister confirmed that he smokes pot, smokes cigarettes, and drinks so much that my wife wants him to go to AA. The house they are staying at, if her mom's house, is very old and not very clean.

To me, ensuring they have a stable healthy living environment and that my daughter is getting her medical care takes priority to me over walking on eggshells for my wife in hopes of winning her back. I think my only hope for ever getting her back now is that after all the rage subsides, she admires me for being a stand up father and wanting to take responsibility for my children. Because I want to be involved in a major part of their lives, not just a minor role.