I would keep all the records so if it comes to him paying you back you have documentation. My MLC or runaway WAS or whatever he is didn't work for a year, nor get a job, and I paid his personal bills (we agreed prior to marriage we'd pay our own bills out of our own accounts)and well I thought I was helping since he was jobless and just lost his mother 8 mths prior. Anyway, he left me with a load of his debt. Watch out! They are irrational and you need to protect yourself. Many of us here have seen S act like total strangers.