H e-mailed this afternoon with an explanation for the huge bill (it makes sense - I know that he did not spend all of it himself). But, the remainder of the bill (not included in the portion he explained) is STILL larger than one of his 2 paychecks for the month! So, keep my mouth shut so he gets no reaction from me? Man, I have far better things to do with my life than think/wonder about my freakin' bank account!!! Hope everyone is having a good day.


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15