Oh, no thanks necessary, Peter. It is good to hear the joy in your post. I still want to caution you to take it slowly. When you say she tells you to trust the process, it sounds like an answer she's giving when you push a little. Also, remember Michele's story about feeding the squirrel.
I know it will do no good to tell you to detach, but you still need to give her plenty of space. If she starts to feel smothered, she will pull away again. The LBH tends to feel very anxious (with good reason) until he has 100 % commitment. There is a reason she is telling you to trust the process. I'm not sure what she is referring to as "the process", but she isn't quite "there" yet.
Just keep remembering the squirrel.
It's great to hear you so uplifted!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
