Are these guys all like your H and Bea's?? Does Smokey just hide/ignore/avoid these feelings of wanting to remain attached on some level?
From the start, I never thought your H really wanted a D. He seemed to lost without you. It's like he NEEDS you in his life and doesn't mind if the attention is negative or positive.
Are they all like this, but just most suffer silently while yours are more verbal and blatantly A-holes to get your attention?
Maybe this is just me having wishful thinking that Smokey actually gives a rat's A$$ about us??
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