My W took off rings at BD and left them at the house for the last 7 months. I just took mine off the other day to wash my hands and finally decided I didn't want to wear it anymore. My reasons are my own and I did think about it often for months. I think its a personal decision and one you have to make when you feel like its what you need.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10