No. Don't say that. Action speaks louder than words. You have the right to feel hurt and want to latch out, but don't. Stop catering to her constant wanting your attention, through text, etc. Yes, she probably will go elsewhere to get the unhealthy attention. Do what Sandi's list says and stick with this DBing so you have a chance to save your M and family. She's needy, but let her find that out on her own.