you're sick sounds a lot like mine the first time. We did not end up getting a divorce but he did file. He was dating someone else separated so he was supposedly in love with. Once I started dating and somewhat ignoring him which in our world is a day or two lol for both of us. He started coming around calling texting hanging around the house more to see the kids. And eventually we got back together. Which was great but a big mistake because nothing was resolved from a7 month separation. And we're here again. I do have to say this time when we did the online divorce and he thought it was done that's when he became very chatty and called, texted, came by a lot. the night we did the divorce online he was very affectionate and wanted to ml. And dumb me I gave in. I also didn't know he was still with OW and he thought I was dating. I believe they do start to think different when that pressure is off. But very merky waters to maneuver!
I could not see if there was OW in your sitch?
I was also wondering if you knew, how many women are here they actually want to reconcile? Or are they just trying to heal?I know the whole idea is to heal but I just wondered how many actually want to hang in there. It seems easier just to move on and find someone else or be alone :-)
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
