More of the same yesterday. He was "supposed" to move out yesterday (just things he needs, not all his stuff) but he shows up at 5PM because he "forgot" some stuff. He started in on how the kiddo is a drug, and he can't stay away, and he's sorry. Then I ask him about the filing and when he's planning on doing more paperwork. His reply: I don't know, I've just been really really busy at work. I'll work on it tomorrow. Today, he has been out of the office all day, so didn't work on it. I'm not going to push any more to get a straight answer as long as he keeps telling me this is "for the best" and then saying "do you really still want to be married to me?" It's the same I hate you don't leave me he's been doing our entire relationship. I'm emotionally exhausted from it.
He went to poker but stayed here last night. He got back, and was chatty with me again. Sent me a funny email, came into the room to tell me about a story from high school that had to do with the email he sent. This morning, was chatty again, wanted to take a shower in "our" room, wanted to talk, wanted to make me coffee. Told me to have a good day. Called me when I sent a text asking him to pick up dog food since I picked it up last time. Wanted to tell me about his day. Told me he would call me when I got off work.
I need a beer after typing all of that up.
Tonight: I have to work from 7PM until 1AM at my other job. He will be at the house with the baby. Tomorrow: anger management counseling. DB coach immediately after work on the way to anger management counseling. May go see some friends afterwards. Thursday: divorce care and yoga. Friday - have a contractor coming to bid on my patio project. Will probably go ahead and have him install the next weekend. Saturday - cleaning house, mow yard, possibly go pick up half of the rest of the flagstone I purchased. Sunday - friend is coming by to go get the last of the flagstone and throwing it in the garage. I'm headed to see friends at their lakehouse after that with the kiddo as he's leaving town Friday. Staying overnight and coming back later on Monday.
Next week - collapse from exhaustion from GALing.
Last edited by LongRoad06; 05/20/1406:13 PM.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
