He wants me to leave the house and let him stay here in the guest room while I go stay in his hotel room so he can be with the kids. I do NOT want to do that, but I also don't want to make things harder for my kids than it needs to be. The only alternative is for us to both stay in the house this weekend, with him in the guest room.
Any thoughts?
First, sorry you find yourself here. Keeping posting and you'll get feedback from others.
I agree with what Thornton is telling you. If you don't want to leave your home and stay in your H's hotel room, don't do it. Be calm and tell him that you are staying in your home. If he chooses to stay there in the guest room, do something to GAL outside of the house while he is there. Meet up with friends, go to the gym, do something. He'll still have some time with the kids and you'll have some time to take care of you.
