When he left the first time seven years ago he had no issue packing up his stuff and moving out. At that time there was no LW involved. He was just angry and want a divorce. He filed for divorce that time.
This time we did an online divorce together but found out we needed to do more. We made a time to get together to do this and he called and said he couldn't come. I got upset and said you're the one that wants this divorce in obviously your other plans are more important. He said you act like it was a date. I told him he could figure out now how to get a divorce. And has done nothing about it but say he's going to do it. Yes, I'm the one who did everything for him. This time when he laughed he's taken very few things. but there is and OW involved.
Yes, revisiting all the info again I kind of gave up for a while 3 things and feeling that I no longer wanted to try and save my marriage I still don't know if that's what I want but I need to re evaluate the way things have been going.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
