To Michele, 4 years later

[faithisbelieving]

Thx kml. Validation. Good word. What it tells me is that I was who I knew and said I was....good father, a hard worker and provider, and, yes....a good husband (ex). It may also mean that I did the work..made the changes....and the attraction.

It doesn't change history. People DO go through difficult times in life. My ex did. She threw out her marriage. She threw away her beautiful home. She impacted the lives of 2 young children. She dragged her family through financial destruction.

It is what it is.

Now that my kids are getting older, I am finding that the questions are coming:
-why did you two divorce
-who filed
-my D11 still hoping we will get back together
-my S14 listens to the 'limited' amount of information that I give him that I think is appropriate for him to know (I never bash his mom), until I get the, "OK dad, I don't want to hear anymore."

FIB