Most of the time I do respond to her text fairly quickly, especially when its about the boys. But lately the text are about little/petty things that she already has, or if not should go and buy herself. (Im sorry but there is no reason anyone should be sending a text at 2:00am about a roll of Wrapping Paper)
I agree with you that she gets wound up when I don't respond right away, and I know I shouldn't let it get to me, but for some reason it does.
So, I did end up responding to her text the following day, and the next day I received a text from WAW that read:
WAW - We need to talk at some point soon. ME - Im available this evening after 9:00, feel free to give me a call.
Im sure she wants to tell me how awful/wrong I am for not being available to her every beck and call. If that is the case, do I say something along the lines of that Im not always going to be available at a time that convenient for you and your every need. if something is a priority... kids grades, Conference's Health (physical and emotional) food, shelter etc I will do everything within my power/current circumstance to be available and openly communicate with you.
When It comes to the kids, I am always here for them.. But All of your other problems/needs/wants are not "my" problems anymore.
What do you guys think? Would that be an acceptable response?
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
