YStarts H could be the poster child for MLC. He said and did the exact same thing 7 years ago as he is now. But I do see some differences. Since he's so in love with other women he is able to disconnect from me more. And is much more angry. So maybe since he's older he's a little deeper in MLC. I find now that no matter what we talk about, even if its the weather, he will find a way to try to start a fight. the frustrating thing is everything has always been someone else's fault. But now its become even more extreme. I'm sure this is wrong, but now I've kind of taken on roll reversal. He is always say to me before the exposure, I don't want to fight I want to get along, and I want to be friends. Then after I expose him its pure hatred. And now I tell him I don't want to fight with you, I want to get along, we need to be adults for the kids. And that makes him mad now. I give up. I know I fall into the trap when he starts to be nice and then turns on me. I need to not!!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
