Thanks Cadet! Yeah I'm sure it will take a long time but I am just wondering because she speaks with such certainty, as if there is absolutely no hope...as many WAWs do. I guess I wonder, after such a dractic change of feelings like this...how could she POSSIBLY be "in love" with me again? It just doesn't seem possible, thus my question...but you say YES...in capital letter even.
Think of it this way.
When you got married you were in LOVE. Did you think that would ever change?
It is part of the script to make sure there seems to be NO HOPE. However HOPE is within YOU and something only YOU control. As long as you have LOVE their can be HOPE.
Best to take that LOVE and stick it away in a strong box. Protect it and put the box up on a high shelf in the closet.
Someday maybe you can take the box out dust it off and see whats inside. Right now their is nothing you can do to change her mind. Put the focus on YOU and not her.
