Or, is this the part where I just keep my mouth shut because he is acting like a rebellious teenager (which he never was), trying to push my buttons and get me even more angry with him?? I am really thinking he is (consciously or subconsciously) trying to make me so angry that I will take the initiative and file for divorce. He has never, ever wanted to be seen as the 'bad guy' -- I'm beginning to see that this must be really important to him.


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15