They're normal behaviors when people want what they want without regard for the feelings of others.

Those agreements only work if both people are honest and above board. You had good intentions and he might have, too. That changed.

His actions must be so painful but try not to focus too much on it, as it's water under the bridge. That bell can't be unrung. Do realize that who he is now is who you're dealing with in the D.

I like your plans, you have a lot on your plate but you're moving forward.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss