IMHO:
Forget FaceBook. It is a tool of the devil, responsible for more strife than anything invented in the last 100 years. Forget its petty little statuses and relationships. Don't get sucked in to the puerile little game of who is showing who what about whom.

FaceBook is nothing but a huge gossip promoter, and gossip never goes anywhere good.

Be above it all. If you're standing for your M, then do so. Don't toy around playing games with your status. Leave it alone.

DETACH, DETACH, DETACH.

My W had me blocked on fb for a while. A few days ago I started getting her posts again. Intentional? Maybe. Or maybe she trashed her fb settings again. Do I care? No. Why? Because I'm not going to run my life based on fb posts/status/relationships or any other teenager-targeted online social network substitute for real face to face human relationships.

(and other than that, I have no opinion on fb!)

And as for the pictures...
If they really, really bother you, take them down.
If you are just trying to make a statement to jab at W, don't waste your time.

Again, keep focused on the end game, don't get distracted by tiny skirmishes.