Detach! Not just from him, but the "things". In the spirit of Clare7's post, remove the emotion from it.

I hope I don't come off as abrasive... but in the grand scheme of things, are the S&P shakers and Gnomes that important?

While i am not suggesting you roll on the "Ming Vase or Picasso", let him take the tissues. Act "as if".


Me: 43
M: 10y
S:15
ILYBINILWY 2/18/13
W moved out 2/18/13
Filed for D: 2/17/13
Got DB: 2/20/13
Got DR: 2/23/13
180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13
D Final Dec '13