Well my lawyer told me that it was actually illegal for her to keep the kids out of state and that makes me feel better about what I'm doing.
Here's how I view it, I want to be in my children's lives. I want to raise them the way they deserve to be raised and provide for them. I want to make my marriage work and my family be successful. If she doesn't want to be a part of this marriage it will have to be her decision to not be a part of it. I'm going to do what's best for my children and myself.
I can't just take a passive role in this and watch as my children are torn away from me and taken 5 hours away while I want to still be the father they deserve. I don't know I understand what she's going through and I am trying to maintain hope for our M one day, but right now all I can do is make sure my children are getting what they deserve.
Me-33,W-26 M-4 yrs, T-5 years S- 2 D- 4 (Special needs, undiagnosed) Apr 2014 B date End of April 2014 Moved in with parent's