Working on myself

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My short term plans are to spend a great summer with my kids. Normally I have horse camps etc and they are with me but this summer a few short trips with them, zoo etc.
I am also looking for a house, small farm with land to restart my business. I am getting my real estate license back and plan on using some of my settlement to purchase my own first investment property. Great way to build for my retirement;) longer range I plan when son is in preschool or kindergarten to go back and get my teaching degree. All I have to do is take the test and do the year of student teaching. I may do some subbing before that.

Yesterday was a hard day I did not have the kids over the weekend. I came to get them. My oldest daughter had a horrible rash and when I took her to the doctor her fever was 103.5. The doctor and I thought strep or scarlet fever. That all came back negative.
I find out later their father introduced them to a woman that had got him to go to church. They all had lunch with his family. Absolutely against our rules. No introducing anyone until divorce is final and then only if we are very serious. Parenting classes recommended waiting a year but not some random date. I was furious and believe this caused my daughter to get sick. She's been having a rough time with everything anyway. And their dad told me after lunch and park she got sick and stayed on couch all night.
Apparently he was telling his family that he is like "the Kennedy's of our town". We all see how well that turned out. Wonder if I'm supposed to be Jackie O;) lol. I spoke to my attorney to see if there is anything I can do about that and another promise he made to another woman that could involve the safety of my children. And he wanted my agreement on a financial settlement yesterday. After I confronted him about the woman he is being super nice. Not sure how he thinks that will help. He appears to make one mistake after another and on his past he is really smart. Are these also normal WAS and MLC behaviors?