I totally understand a case of the sads, try not to dwell in that space, feel it accept it and move on.
Forcing myself to be happy, forcing myself to smile has now helped me to be happier and more peaceful, its becoming a habit, a true feeling not so force anymore. It took me a few months of being so down and upset and worried and angry and mad and hurt, I said I dont want to spend anymore of my life feeling like this.I also dealt with anger issues and meanness in the past towards everyone, I'm also working on that. Dont want to me quick to anger or upset all the time anymore.
Working on forgiving yourself and your H will help you, it has truly helped me. When I think about my old M, and start to get mad or sad, I thing about forgiving myself and my H and moving on.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
