As always great advise! You are right I know what buttons to push. I have been trying to do things myself around the house. He came over to help the kids. Last week my son and I needed to go to the dump. I mentioned I think my transition in Tahoe was not right. He had said a few days before he would not do anything for me. I said I was worried about hauling the trailer. The next day his truck was in the driveway and $. That was very nice of him. However, I didn't go so well. He thought kids had half day like all week. He saw us leaving @3:30 and was mad we left so late. I explained he got out @ 3.
Gets worse, we go to the dump and his truck won't start! He was mad now. He came out with friend. I had taken keys out since we had to leave it and wait at the gate because they were closing. They we're in such a hurry when I got there I forgot to give them the keys.. Which added fuel to the fire. When we got the truck started and when we got in I'm really sorry that all this. he looks right at me and said don't F-ing talk to me. He just said terrible things to me like I did it on purpose. My son was in the car.... This is how angry hes been lately since ive talked to ow ex husband and ow as well. I've been trying my hardest and now know we can't talk at all! About ow and us.
As fast as he gets angry he then calms down in a few days as long as I keep the "nice" going.
I often wonder why when h/w leave and they are in another, they almost all get very defensive talking about ow/om? Guilt maybe?? It was funny that it was ok to ask about me but he was/is off limits!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
