New therapist and moving on......

[twinmom]

I have endured a lot, and will continue to. I don't care what H thinks about me and maybe this was a little on the f!#@ you side but I think I am entitled to one of those...... it's not healthy to keep all anger inside, and this was my way of releasing a little......

On another note I told H last week that I no longer want a joint checking account. He can take over paying all the bills. I will figure out how to pay for gas/groceries. He couldn't understand why I would want to do this right now, I just told him I don't have to share my reasons with him.
He called the bank asking if we could just remove my name from the account and they said no it had to be closed and he could open a new one.
I found out today he just had the address changed to the account and opened a new one at another bank. I am FUMING angry that he changed the address to the account my name is still on and the statement (with all transactions from last month) will go to HER house and she has access to see where I spent $$$.
I sent a text saying I didn't appreciate anyone at HER house having access to my financial information and that I wanted the account closed tomorrow. He never responded.

H should be served papers this week as the website now shows a court date of June 26th. (Hope I am not in the hospital having this baby!)

I told H tonight we need to sit down and have a serious discussion of expectations regarding the baby's birth and right after (he wants to be there)