You are right your H is insane in his logic and justifications. Their juvenile behavior is senseless and kind of pathetic.
For many months I felt sorry for my kids (and I can still go there). The thing that takes me out that is how I am a better mom now.
I am more confident, stronger and have a clearer set of priorities. I tried so long to be super mom and it made me insane and our lives insane. Now I am grateful for everyday and grateful I can show my girls how to live with gratiitude for what we have today.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13