I could do that but he wants to go over even little things - extra boxes of tissues, salt and pepper shakers...it will have to be an inventory of literally every item in the house. But maybe it's just how it has to be to get it done without being too emotional. Part of the problem is I attach too much feeling and emotion to physical things. Thank you for the idea!
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final