We haven't talked about specifics on being solution oriented, but she did take me out the second week of working on us. She also invites me over for dinner, like tonight, so she is doing some planning as well.

The coupon book is a good idea, I was going to put a back rub one in her mother's day card but I spaced it. I did give her dance coupons when we were first dating and she loved them.

Straight, yeah, but if I dressed how I wanted I would arouse suspicion. Don't understand why a man wearing a scarf gets his sexuality questioned but in Europe it is common for men to wear them. My comments on her outfits was not about clothes but about detailing what I see that I like and why. More explicit and open communication from me. Trying to detail what is inside my head instead of leaving it open for interpretation.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15