Sandi2 so what would be your recomendation with a WAW that I dont know if on an A or not, but has cut all contact completelly for 4 months? Is there any way to aproach that WAW?
In your stitch, I would tell you to move on. I think you need to mourn the M, and then move forward to live a new life for yourself. I am sorry, Ye. I know you are suffering.
You have moved to a new land with new possibilities ahead. Build a new life for yourself. You will find a lady who will be happy to stand by your side. For what it's worth, I am impressed with your move. You really did it!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!