Also the fact that she took the kids 5 hours away and stayed so that I only get to see my children every other week when the original plan was for her to go for 2 weeks and then come home so we could figure everything out plays into it too. I miss my children.
The longer that she has, to become entrenched with the current Status Quo, the harder it will be for you to see them ....
I like the plan of a separation agreement with temporary custody and support rules in consideration....
It's not black or white, just somewhere in the middle...