I would move to our lake house once we have a legal seperation. She would get the M house and I would keep my 401k and get the lake house. Split up everything 50/50 including custody. She wants me to have S every other weekend and I'm not willing to be a weekend dad.
I will not leave until we get everything through the court.
It's very difficult living this way in the same house and maybe some space will do us both some good.
I'm just having a tough time with this but I think maybe it's time to do something. I keep busy but want home to be a safe harbor, a place to get away from life's storms. It's not that we fight, there is nothing from W.
L thinks I may need to get a home closer to S school by fall. M home is about 20 min away and lake house is about 40 min - thought that court may think that's to far.
We've been living together like this since 10/12 but got colder around 1/14
If she's done like she says I just wish she would file for D.
Should I say anything to W or just file for legal seperation or just keep living like I am?
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14
